…and off she goes
Our baby girl is born, and heaps of congratulations messages start rolling over.
How exciting, we have a baby girl.
We create the most amazing memories as parents with her. From diapers, singing lullabies, potty training, preschool to high school, managing hormonal mood swings, shopping for clothes, make-up, prom, peer pressure talks, and preparing for college.
Was I ready for her leaving? I thought I was.
Summer was busy buying all her dorm supplies, matching her taste. After all, it’s going to be home for her for the next few years. The cushiony comforter, plush pillows, her favorite teddy bear for nighttime hugs, and the long list of supplies made space in the trunk of the car.
Why was I shedding tears driving her to college? I still am not clear, as she was going to be with us for the next four days.
My emotional quotient was skyrocketing high. Chatting, cracking jokes, digging old memories, and one big fat tear rolls down.
“Are you crying, mom”? ” No, I smile; my eye is very itchy “. Well, not easy to lie with family, so my eyes swell up even more.
The dorm move goes very smoothly, with no hiccups.
She is happy with her roommates, her dorm friends, but what about me?
I knew I would be sad, but I felt like a tsunami with a giant wave hit me—every minute, I was checking on my phone for her messages.
I felt like a psychotic woman frantically searching for something.
Millions of questions raced through my turbulent mind.
Will she be able to get up for her early morning class? Will she eat on time? How about being safe walking at night on campus, will she be able to manage it? Does she know how to do her laundry? Did she wear her sunglasses and cap in the sun, or will her headache trouble her?
I questioned my parenting, asking if I had raised a confident girl, and then …
Her one-line message pops up on my phone.
” Mom, I made new friends. I am eating now “.
…” and I and my roommates love the dorm set up with neon lights, posters, vision boards, and succulents.
A gigantic happy tear rolls down my cheek. I felt relieved.
Maybe I am selfish.
Maybe I am too attached.
Maybe I am unable to let her go.
I realized I will always be a mom.
I was dreading the final goodbye, but it had to happen.
I was numb, and a flashback of all the memories of my 17-year-old daughter unfolded in front of my eyes. I could not stop hugging her and did not want to let her hands go off me. Eyes were puffed up again, fighting back my tears, but I let her go.
I miss her very deeply.
Her chatty, boisterous, and humorous ways echo all around. Her closet is kind of half empty. Her space lights are not on. Her favorite brown blanket is not all over the bed. Her room is immaculate and spotless with no ruffles packet or coke cans around.
The house is way too quiet.
I know she can catch an hour’s flight and be home, but her absence is evident.
Everyone says it will get better with time, and yes, I need time.
My daughter is out there now, escaped the chrysalis, ready to face the real world.
Off she goes, my bold, fearless, and fierce little girl to win her marathon.
I know she will be fine and that’s what brings a smile to my face!
I am a proud mother but I miss her, after all, how can one take the mother away from a woman?
NaMāste
#theboldwithinme
Love, peace & blessings

3 Comments

  1. Sonia Makhija

    Sending hugs! ❤️❤️❤️… what a nice presentation of hidden emotional feelings… luv always👏🏻👏🏻

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  2. Linal

    Know the feeling as I went through the same emotional roller-coaster couple of years back with the twins . It is not easy when your babies fly out of the nest but all that matters is they are happy😊
    Sending hugs!

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  3. Monica Lakhiani

    This is beautiful 👏 all the best !

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